Shaizan Nadaf
I am going to share my views not against some individual or against any community.So, don’t take it otherwise as I communicate through these written words what I have understood as per my little understanding. According to many scholars they have various concepts about LOVE In this column I have just shared this theory to aware you what Robert Sternberg says about love: Robert Sternberg says that intimacy refers to “feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bondedness in loving relationships”, passion refers to “the drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, sexual consummation, and related phenomena in loving relationships” and decision/commitment means different things in the short and long term. In the short-term, it refers to “the decision that one loves a certain other”, and in the long-term, it refers to “one’s commitment to maintain that love. Our Prophet Muhammad SAW said : “The person who is doing extravagant He is the brother of devil”.
Now a days people are treading with modernization which have created much inconvenience in poor stratum. It’s very hard to parents to earn livelihood in these days but for their children they need everything whatever they want, with modernization and each and everything with numerous prices. Richest people can afford but poorest people can’t afford. I think it’s the main reason why poverty is increasing day by day. Love is the reason of depression. It can push into a deep depression. Love is the main cause for suicide as we are seeing how many boys and girls have committed suicide and this often creates much non plussing in our society . Love does come with positive and negative effects but what is important is that to keep consciousness wrong should not be committed. Islam never allows us to make wrong relationships. Through negative effect of love we have seen how some sexual cases are happen which is totally forbidden in our Islam.
Parents have always craved that their wards get inordinate knowledge. They send their students to best institutions and they are tolerating expenditure .Unfortunately some children are carrying wrong behoof .Whatever I write that is my ideology
(The author is class 12 Students. Views are his own)
