Creator has decorated this beautiful world with his unlimited creations, and every creation is important and valuable, among these creations mankind is one of the most important creations among them all, without shadow of doubt the status of a mankind is very high. That’s why Creator has created each and everything for mankind and is interlinked with mankind by different means and ways either it is living or non-living thing. Mother is always as the first and close friend for her children. After opening his eyes his/her mother starts providing him/her every possible food to survive the life, The lap of a mother is called as first ever strong and precious school of a baby in this contemporary world, as well as the best and favorite teacher of the school is the same mother from the baby gets birth, who side by side looks after his/her physique and provides him all kinds of possible recreating activities and exercises, it is unquestionable that actions of mother effect impacts on her baby during gestation period ,so mothers should avoid notorious and fictitious activities especially during this important period because it directly impacts baby’s behaviour .Surely mother plays an important role in building the physique, mentality and ideology of a baby. May Allah s.w.t protect all our mothers, and give them the ability to choose the righteous path.
“A poor is one who does not have any friend”.After getting admission in primary school the baby gets indulged in different activities with other children and starts his new journey among little blooming, charming and pious children, likewise till higher studies and during this important and valuable period the strangers started turned into friends and here is the initiation of true friendship. And sometimes friends turn into relatives. On that day wrongdoer will bite his hands and say, “would that I had walked in the Messenger’s path! Oh would that I had never chosen such a one for my companion. He made me forgetful of the warning after it had reached me. Satan is man’s greatest betrayer. (QURAN, 25-29)Surround yourself with those who remind you of Allah and become happy. The greatest thing a friend can do for you bring you closer to Allah. Real friends want to be neighbor in jannah. Imagine Allah forgives you and takes you into jannah because you were the reason for making your friend to repent.
Indeed true friendship is the most precious gift of the life. A person is called very lucky having true friends in his/her life. True friendship gives us memorable, sweet and pleasant experiences of many types in the life. Friendship is the most precious asset of one’s life. True friendship leads two or more persons involved in it towards success without any demotion in life. Searching a best and true friend is not an easy job, sometimes we get success and sometimes we fail because of our misunderstanding, useless and illegal desires especially during teenage. Friendship is a devoted feeling of love to which we can share anything about our life and care for each other always. A friend is someone who understands and appreciates other one without any exaggeration. True friends never becomes greedy towards each other instead they want to give something better to each other and bring each other closer to Almighty Allah because they wish to be neighbors in paradise.
Mainly friends can be two types good or bad , Good friends leads us on good path where as bad friends leads us on a bad path, So, we should be very careful while choosing friends and companions in our life. Bad friends can prove very bad for us even they are quite enough to ruin our life completely we need someone special in our life to share our feelings to talk someone to remove our loneliness and to achieve the spirituality which will benefit hereafter as well. By way of conclusion human is a social being and in all phases of life, from very beginning of childhood and youth old age till his death are in need of friendship and association with others, owing to his social nature man is compelled to live in society and with other individuals and most of our times depends in interaction with others. Generally a successful friendship exists between person of a same Character,thinking, motive and age,friendship is the loyal support for each other that is aimlessly supportive especially during bad moments of life, we must always try to adopt a good and well charactered friend from whom we can learn good habits and could judge legal and illegal things. Lonely and poor is one who doesn’t have any friend. I am humbled and thankful to Almighty Allah who has bestowed me a brilliant, tremendous, brave and pious character friends cum teachers who always help, guide, support and encourage me in every field .May Allah bless them all (Ameen)!
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