Man is a Social being and we all know it. This indicates that a man can not survive or live without other human beings. He can not spend his life all alone. To live in a society, to express his emotions, feelings, ideas, thoughts and views he needs other fellow human beings. That is why our creater God has created us in pairs. It is a matter of fact that a man can not survive with creatures like animals, birds etc. He needs someone who looks like him in appearance. No doubt, we all think differently as we are gifted with logical reasoning with intellectual power of brains. Humans are different and unique in appearances from one another but still they need other fellow humans for sharing their heart out. Since, in this materialistic world, we are bound with relationships, some blood relations and some others too. No doubt blood relations are superior to all, but still there are some relations which become the cause of happiness and joy. We all are engaged in different fields while working in these fields we share our ideas and thoughts with our colleagues, co-workers and other persons with whom we are working or used to. Relations are not meant for one day, one week or one year. They are such attachments that a person never wanted to end. Among all these relations, I ponder and came to the conclusion that marriage is the ultimate and most pious relation. Marriages are arranged in the heavens and celebrated on the earth. Yes! Marriage is a relationship between two persons who are not only known to each other and tied -up in a holy knot but also the cause of their happiness and a reason to live joyfully. Those who are introverts and usually don’t share their emotions with others, who hesitate to share their feelings with the people around them, can easily share everything with his/her partner.
Marriage is a pious relation and one should be very committed to it. Marriages are pious knots in which two people are tied, not only physically but also emotionally, mentally and Psychologically .Marraige is a legal formality or a sort of accord between two people who agree upon certain terms and conditions like taking care of each other. In other words the act of marriage can be put as the development of relationship which brings together two people, two souls, two families ,two tribes and two races. Therefore when we take the larger view of this act ,it is clear that it brings together the whole of humanity. When we tie a knot we must develop emotional and spiritual attachment with our partner. Besides this we have to remain loyal to each other so that the developed relations prosper and the couple feels living in paradise. Husband and Wife are soulmates to eachother. They should take care, respect feelings, thoughts, views, emotions and ideas of each other. If they are truly committed to one another, they will never fall prey to any obstacle or negativity. In my opinion, I would like to put forth that without this pious knot our life is incomplete. Marriage completes half of our Emaan. It purifies our inner-self and gives holy touch to our soul. It is obviously a Pious Knot!
(The author is a teacher by profession. The views, opinions, facts, assumptions, presumptions and conclusions expressed in this article are author’s own and aren’t necessarily in accord with the views of “Kashmir Horizon”.)
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