It’s an undeniable fact that life is sacred and precious. But it is also the reality that it is too short and fragile. No one knows what the next moment brings for him/her. It’s so fragile that no one knows whether he/she will live the next moment, next couple of hours or next day. Once the life is over, your near and dear ones will cry for you: they will remember you; they will remember your smiles and anger; your words and silence; your deeds and behavior; your good and bad moments; your craziness/ madness and seriousness; and most importantly what they will remember is how you have behaved with them; how you have treated them; and what they have felt during the moments you’ve spent together. People may forget your words and silence; they may forget your deeds; but they will (always) remember your attitude; your kind heartedness; and the words that you uttered when they needed support and theywill never forget that shoulder which helped them during the times of distress, difficulties and disappointment. Life is fragile, temporal and is short; so we should live every moment of it; cherish it and spent good time with our near and dearones; with those whom we love and like; with those who need us and who expect us to be with them when they need us.
I am of the belief that we should always care about our relationships: our relationship with our parents/siblings/ family, friends, colleagues, well wishers and all those who deserve and desire. We should care about those whom we meet; for meeting someone (even if it is just for few moments) is not a matter of coincidence but a matter of fate and destiny. Meeting them; talking them; spending time with them; building a relationship or friendship with them is not a mere coincidence or a time pass; it is destined to be so. It’s not just randomly but as per the plan. We need to understand this and accept this; and welcome everyone in our life with a smiling face and an open heart. They must feel happy and rejoiced in our company with our care and concern; with our words and actions; gestures and attitude; etc. Let’s make it our mantra and have firm belief on this that whosoevercomes in our life let’s welcome and accept him/her with a smiling face and open heart. Let’s accept and welcome all those who come in our life with this belief that the meeting is not random, but are destined to be so. Let’s meet everyone with an open heart and let’s talk with everyone with a smiling face. We get this life only once; so let’s celebrate life and let’s live every moment of it; who knows “Kal Ho Na Ho”.
(The is a student at Govt. Degree College Sogam ,Lolab Kupwara. Views are his own)
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