In the young age I used to go in the marriage ceremonies just to enjoy the parties not knowing what the system meant for me. However when I grew mature I finally came to know about the importance of this bond & it’s creation. In the collage days some friends used to make fun out of it thinking that it is mere to satisfy the sexual desires. But still some of them were sensitive enough regarding this checkout. We used to have very sound debates on these social issues & the ways to eradicate the kind of evils utterly, despite the ideological differences. Once the friend asked me about the importance of marriage within the current society where it definitely seems a burden, I was dumb deaf & harsh with no answer after looking at the dominance of marital conflicts prevailing in the society. I personally too have such kind of experience like whenever I met any married friends, they always made bunches of negative comments regarding this social responsibility. They frequently call it the “beginning of mental distractions”. After looking at the dominance of such cases certain people begin to think it is really a burden & they skip this practice (mostly among the females ). Why it really looks like a burden on the society as a whole? Why marriages are confined to certain rituals & rites & nothing more than that? Why we find the married persons more depressed than unmarried ones in the current scenario? Let’s scrutinize the facts.
Marriage completes incomplete of a being, but a mutual understanding is must between the two partners. The fact is we have confined the opposite gender as tool for the sexual desires. Marriage is the beginning of the family system which in future many a times turns out to be the blessing for mankind. It is the physical, emotional & spiritual union where the two souls share their inner feelings to get rid of concoctions & mental distractions they have met before. They produce the offspring& norish them & carve them and frame them as the models of the society. In turn these off springs turn out to be the blessing for the parents, family & society as a whole. In the society marital conflicts begin with the dominance of materialistic concepts rather than understanding the emotional spiritual union & feelings of the opposite gender. In the European countries the disaster & the sexual abuse is on the rise due to skipping of the system & implementation of the concepts of feminism in the society where everyone fulfills the sexual desires according to the will of the being & This thing is prevailing in our society as well. The society where practicing sexual intercourse become very cheap & marriages become very hard to tackle, the aftermaths of these kind of marriages will absolutely turn out to be very fatal & drastic. The society where abundant rites & rituals are prevailing. These conflicts are bound make the intrusion in such society. We as the common citizens need to think deeply into the matter. We need to frame the society where the system becomes smooth for marriages & very difficult task for the illegal sexual intercourse between the two opposite genders.
(The author is a freelancer. Views are his own)