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		<title>Miraj: A miraculous journey</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[In the twelfth year of his mission, the holy Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) made his night journey from Mecca to Jerusalem, and thence to heaven. His journey, known in history as Miraj (Ascension), was a real bodily one and not only a vision. Miraj is an Arabic noun derives from the root “uruc” that means “to [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the twelfth year of his mission, the holy Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) made his night journey from Mecca to Jerusalem, and thence to heaven. His journey, known in history as Miraj (Ascension), was a real bodily one and not only a vision. Miraj is an Arabic noun derives from the root “uruc” that means “to ascent”. In this respect Miraj refers to the instrument of ascending of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) from earth to the heavens. Laylat-ul Miraj is the 27th night of Rajab, the blessed night that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) performed the miracle of miraj, the seventh month of Islamic lunar calendar. As the greatest miracle of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) that He performed for the dwellers of the earth is His splitting the moon into two, His greatest miracle performed for the dwellers of the heaven is “Ascension”.   Allah (swt) has revealed this as the first verse of Quran&#8217;s chapter al-Isra, Night Journey, which is also known as the chapter of the Children of Israel or the chapter of Glorification ( Subhan ). In it Allah mentions the Night Journey ( Isra ) in which He called the Prophet (s) to His Divine Presence. Glory be to Him Who made His servant to go on a night from the Inviolable Mosque to the Far-Distant Mosque of which We have blessed the precincts, so that We may show to him some of Our signs; surely He is the Hearing, the Seeing. [17: 1] As Allah opened the Holy Qur&#8217;an in the Opening chapter Surat al-Fatiha, with the words “ Al-Hamdu Lillah &#8211; Praise be to Allah,” in this verse of Surat al-Isra (17:1), He opens the chapter of the Night Journey with, “ Subhana &#8211; Glory be to Allah (swt).&#8221; Allah is glorifying Himself saying, “ Subhana alladhi asra&#8217;” which means “Glory to Me, the One who brought the Prophet on the Night Journey calling him to My Divine Presence.” This is beyond the comprehension of the human mind. Allah is not just reminding us about this event, rather, He is glorifying Himself on account of it. That is because the Night Journey, moving almost instantaneously from Makka to Masjid al-Aqsa and the Ascension, traversing in an incredibly short span of time the worldly domain of this universe and beyond, transcend the laws of physics governing movement. There is no way for any scientist&#8217;s mind to comprehend how the Prophet (s) moved across the globe and was then carried to Allah&#8217;s Divine Presence. Such a journey is beyond the scope of imagination. Therefore Allah (swt) glorifies Himself saying, &#8220;Yes it happened! Glory to Me Who can do this! I am beyond these laws and systems. I am the Creator of all systems.&#8221; Space and time which are bound by laws of nature for humans, are not so bound for Allah. On that night prophet Muhammad (pbuh) bridged time and space and this world, traveling to the heavens by Allah&#8217;s will.  Allah sent the prophets as a mercy to the slaves and supported them with miracles to indicate the truthfulness of their message. Of all the prophets, our Prophet, Muhammad (pbuh), was blessed with the most miracles. Al-Isra&#8217; and al-Miraj are among the many miracles of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). The Heavenly Journey of the Prophet of Islam has been straight forwardly explained in two Surahs of the Qur&#8217;an.<br />
In other Surahs as well, we see allusions to this journey. This journey is also confirmed in the sahih hadith. One night prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was sleeping near the Ka’ba in Mecca when the angel Jibreel (A.S) with seventy thousand angels came to him. The angel Jibreel (A.S) ordered by Allah took his arm and led him to the Great Mosque. Waiting for him at the gate was a al-Buraq (the heavenly creature) that being the name of a mount on which prophet (pbuh) travelled to the Rabb (Lord) of power through the land of the angels. The buraq had the body of a horse but the face of a human being, with big black eyes and soft ears. His colour was that of a peacock whose plumage was set with red rubies and corals, on which sat a white head of musk on a neck of amber. His ears and shoulders were of pure white pearls attached with golden chains, each chain decorated with glittering jewels. His saddle was made of silk lined with silver and gold threads. His back was covered with green emerald and his halter was pure peridot. The speed of the buraq is according to his sight. His legs reach wherever his eyes can see. Jibraeel (A.S) said: &#8220;Rasool Allah, this night is your night, and your turn has come to shine in the sky of creation. The prophet (pbuh) climbed onto the Buraq and the Angel Jibreel (A.S) stood beside them pointing the way northward toward the city of Jerusalem. With the aide of his steed al Buraq, he traveled to Bait al Muqaddas (founded by Prophet Yaqub (A.S) then finished by his son prophet Sulayman (A.S)), which (at that time) was located in the country of Jordan and is also known as Masjid al Aqsa (the Furthest Masjid). Allah brought Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) to Masjid al-Aqsa in Palestine, where he found Abraham (A.S), Moses (A.S) and Jesus (A.S), in a company of prophets assembled for him.<br />
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) dismounted the Buraq and led all the prophets  (alaihi salaam) in prayer at the site of the Dome of the Rock. Prophet Adam (A.S) spoke saying: &#8211; &#8220;Praise be to Allah who created me with His hands and ordered the angels to prostrate for me and brought out all the prophets from among my descendants!&#8221; Then Nuh (A.S) said: &#8211; &#8220;Praise be to Allah who accepted my prayer and saved me and my people from drowning with my ship with the help of the angels, and honoured me!&#8221; Then Ibraheem (A.S)  said: &#8211; &#8220;Praise be to Allah who took me as His friend and gave me a huge kingdom, and gave me prophets for descendants, and saved me from the fire of Namrood, and made it cool and safe for me!&#8221; And Musa (A.S) said: &#8211; &#8220;Praise be to Allah who spoke to me without an intermediary and chose me for His message, and made me victorious over Pharaoh with the help of his angels, and gave me the Torah which Jibraeel taught me how to write, and adorned me with His love.&#8221; And Dawood (A.S) said:- &#8220;Praise be to Allah who revealed the Psalms to me, and softened the iron between my hands and all other elements, and chose me for His Message!&#8221; And Sulaiman (A.S) said:- &#8220;Praise be to Allah who has made subject to me the winds, the jinn, and human beings; who taught me the language of birds; who gave me a kingdom which he never gave to anyone after me, and supported me with all his angels.&#8221; And Isa (Jesus) (A.S) said:- &#8220;Praise be to Allah who sent me as a Word from Him to the world, taught me the Torah and the Gospel, made me cure the deaf, the dumb, and the leper, made me bring back to life the dead by His permission, and supported me with Jibraeel (A.S) and all His angels.&#8221; And Muhammad (pbuh) said:- &#8220;All of you praised your Rabb (Lord) and I praise Him also, Who sent me as a Mercy for human beings and revealed the Quran to me, expanded my breast, took out my sins, raised me up, made my Nation and all human beings the best that could be, and called me &#8216;Kind and Merciful'&#8221;! And Jibraeel (A.S) said:- &#8220;That is why, Muhammad (pbuh) you are the last of Prophets and a Mercy for human beings.  After the prayer, three vessels, containing milk, wine and water were brought before Muhammad (pbuh). Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) only drank from the vessel containing milk. Jibreel (A.S) then said, “Oh Muhammad (pbuh), you enjoy what is pure and keep away from what is impure. Surely you will guide your people to the path of Allah.”</p>
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<strong>&#8220;Praise be to Allah Who has taken His servant by night from the Sacred Mosque (Mecca) to the Farthest Mosque (Jerusalem).&#8221; (Holy Quran, 17:1)</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Led by the angel Jibreel (A.S), Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) began his ascent through the seven heavens where he saw many other prophets. There was Adam (A.S) in first paradise, Yahya (A.S) and Isa (A.S) in second paradise, Yusuf (A.S) in third paradise, Idris in fourth paradise, in the fifth paradise he (pbuh) saw Hawwa (the mother of human beings), Maryam (the mother of Isa), Yukabid (Musa&#8217;s  mother),  Assia (the wife of Pharaoh). The fifth lady looked like a sun among stars (an angel representing  daughter of Muhammad (pbuh) Fatima).  In the sixth paradise he (pbuh) saw prophet Musa and in the seventh paradise he (pbuh) saw prophet Ibrahim (A.S). Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) greeted all prophets and they greeted him back with the best greeting of heaven. When Muhammad (pbuh) ascended to the top of the Universe he saw a mighty Throne. The Buraq stopped and Muhammad (pbuh) dismounted and found himself before a solitary Lote tree. The Lote Tree (sidrat al-muntaha) marks the end of all earthly knowledge and beyond it no one knows what exists except Allah. Then Allah showered a divine light upon the Lote tree that was extremely bright, yet the prophet held his gaze on the tree and said, “I take refuge in the Light of your Grace: Oh Allah Almighty.” At the Lote Tree Muhammad (pbuh) received for Muslims the instructions for salat, the last section of Surah al-Baqarah and the command from Allah that each Muslim should pray fifty times a day.<br />
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was also shown the depths of Hell and saw many horrible things. He saw people that had their stomachs enlarged so big that they could not stand. As they lay on the ground suffering the Prophet was told that these were the people who kept orphans away from the property that was rightfully theirs and used it for themselves instead. The Prophet also saw people that had two plates of meat before them. One had freshly cooked meat that was good to eat while the other had meat that was spoiled and stinking. These people were eating only the rotten meat. The Prophet was told that they were the ones who used to commit adultery and fornication. There was another set of people who tried to speak but every time they opened their mouths to do so a sharp knife was there to cut their tongues out. The prophet (pbuh) was told that these were people that always spoke evil behind the backs of their fellow Muslims. The Prophet then began his descent back to Earth. As he passed downward Musa stopped him and asked, “How many prayers have been laid upon you?” “Fifty”, Muhammad (pbuh) replied. Musa then said, “The congregational prayer is a heavy weight and your people are weak. Return to your Lord and ask Him to lighten the load for you and your people.” Muhammad (pbuh) took the advice from his friend and went back to Allah to ask for a reduction in the number of daily prayers. Allah took away ten prayers and Muhammad (pbuh) again began his descent to Earth. Musa (A.S) stopped the prophet again and told him that the number of prayers was still too much. Muhammad (pbuh) returned to Allah several times to get the number of prayers reduced until it was down to only five daily prayers. Musa (A.S) again said this was too much but Muhammad (pbuh) said, “I have returned to my Lord so many times and asked Him so much that I am ashamed. I will not go again, but I have His assurance that whoever performs the five daily prayers will be given credit for fifty.” The Prophet (pbuh) continued his descent from Heaven to Jerusalem.  It was from this same path that he traversed that he returned, and upon coming back, once again visited to Bait al Muqaddas, proceeded on to Makkah and then to his home. On the return trip, he came across a trade caravan from the tribe of the Quraish who during their journey had lost one of their camels which they were searching for. The Prophet (pbuh) drank from the water that the people of the caravan had with them and by the rising of the morning sun, reached back to the house of Umm al Hani. From there the prophet returned to Mecca. It was still night when he reached the place where he had been sleeping only a short time before. The night journey to Jerusalem came to be called Al-Isra’a and Muhammad’s (pbuh) ascent into Heaven is known as Al-Mi’raj.<br />
Ibn Ishaq related, quoting Umm Hani as his source, that she said, &#8220;It was from nowhere but my home that the Messenger of God (pbuh) made his night journey. He slept that night after having made the final evening prayer. When it was just before dawn he woke up and when it was morning we prayed together and he said, ? O Umm Hani, last evening I prayed with you in this valley, then I went to Jerusalem and prayed there. And now here I am having said the morning prayer with you, as you see.&#8217; &#8220;He then arose to leave, but I took hold of the hem of his cloak and said, ? O Messenger of God, do not make that statement to the people; they will surely disbelieve you and do you harm.&#8217;  &#8220;But he replied, ? By God, I will certainly tell it to them!&#8217; In the evening, in a gathering of the people of the Quraish, Prophet lifted all the curtains of the secrets of the Me&#8217;raj and his journey and opened their minds to this event. The word of his travels spread from mouth to mouth amongst all the groups, and now more than ever, the Quraish were upset (with him).  The Quraish, as was their old time habit, belied the Prophet (pbuh) and in the gathering, a man stood up and asked if there was anyone in Makkah who has seen Bait al Muqaddas so that he could ask the Prophet (pbuh)  in regards to the physical building. Not only did the Prophet (pbuh) describe the physical particularities of Bait al ¬Muqaddas, rather, he even informed them of the event that took place between Makkah and Bait al Muqaddas   and it was not long after that the travelers (of that caravan) reported the exact events (as had occurred).<br />
Sincere Muslims supported and defended him. One of the prophet’s (pbuh) best friends was Abu Bakr (R.A). After hearing about the prophet’s (pbuh) famous journey Abu Bakr (R.A) said, “If Muhammad (pbuh) says it then it must be true. Why should we doubt him? He tells me that the Quran comes from Heaven all the time and I know him to be speaking the truth. That is more than what you are questioning him about today.”  It is concluded that after the night journey the prophet (pbuh) had new strength and confidence. He was sure he could carry out his mission and guide people to the path of Islam. This was also the time that people in Medina heard about the new religion called Islam. They invited the prophet to their city and a few years later he made the Hijra to that city. The wonderful night of Isra’a and Mi’raj helped the prophet and the Muslims to become stronger in their faith which enabled them to overcome the idol-worshiping Meccans. The night journey of the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) was filled with trials and tribulations and (instances) of Allah&#8217;s power and authority; it provides a lesson for men of intelligence, guidance, a mercy and an affirmation for those with faith and belief.  May Allah guide us all towards right path and forgive our present and future sins… Ameen!</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;(The author a teacher at S K University of Agriculture Sciences &amp; Technology-SKUAST Srinagar writes  on Islamic topics exclusively for “Kashmir Horizon”)</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2017 14:25:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Ethics may be defined as the set of moral principles that distinguishes right from wrong. Ethics has a twofold objective: it evaluates human practices by calling upon moral standards; also it may give prescriptive advice on how to act morally in a given situation. Ethics, therefore, aims to study both moral and immoral behaviour in [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ethics may be defined as the set of moral principles that distinguishes right from wrong. Ethics has a twofold objective: it evaluates human practices by calling upon moral standards; also it may give prescriptive advice on how to act morally in a given situation. Ethics, therefore, aims to study both moral and immoral behaviour in order to make well-founded judgments and to arrive at adequate recommendations. Sometimes ethics is used synonymously with morality. An action, which is morally right, is also called an ethical one. Codes of morality are called ethical codes.Business ethics can also be defined as business morality. Business Ethics is the branch of ethics that examines ethical rules and principles within a commercial context; the various moral or ethical problems that can arise in a business setting; and any special duties or obligations that apply to persons engaged in commerce. Generally speaking, business ethics is a normative discipline, whereby particular ethical standards are formulated and then applied. It makes specific judgments about what is right or wrong, which is to say, it makes claims about what ought to be done or what ought not  to be done. Generally speaking, business ethics is concerned with the study of what is good and bad, right and wrong, and just and unjust in business. Islam places the highest emphasis on ethical values in all aspects of human life. In Islam, ethics governs all aspects of life. Ethical norms and moral codes discernable from the verses of the Holy Qur’an and the teachings of the Prophet Mohammad (SAW) are numerous, far reaching and comprehensive. Islamic teachings strongly stress the observance of ethical and moral code in human behaviour. Moral principles and codes of ethics are repeatedly stressed throughout the Holy Qur’an. Besides, there are numerous teachings of the Prophet Mohammad (SAW) which cover the area of moral and ethical values and principles. This goes without saying that there is a general consensus among human beings about certain fundamental ethical values. However, the Islamic ethical system substantially differs from the so-called secular ethical systems as well as from the moral code advocated by other religions and societies. In the Islamic scheme of things, adherence to moral code and ethical behaviour is a part of I% man (faith) itself. According to the Islamic teachings, Muslims have to jealously guard their behaviour, deeds, words, thoughts, feelings and intentions. Islam asks its believers to observe certain norms and moral codes in their family affairs; in dealings with relatives, with neighbours and friends; in their business transactions; in their social affairs, nay in all spheres of private and public life. Islam has its own distinctive value-based ethical system for business dealings. It prescribes certain specific guidelines for governing business ethics. It (i) enumerates the general ethical rules of business conduct, (ii) identifies ethically desirable forms of business, and, (iii) specifies the undesirable modes of transactions. Given the nature of Islamic ethical and moral codes, it would be beyond the capacity of one paper to fully comprehend the subject.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Ethical and moral codes in Islam are part of the overall Islamic faith and observing them will not only lead to a happy state of affairs in this world but also holds the promise of manifold returns in the hereafter. Islamic ethical and moral codes thus create a sense of responsibility and accountability in the minds of the believers, be they buyers or sellers.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>In modern times business ethics has become a major topic of discussion among business communities and other related organizations. Each and every society has evolved ethical and moral codes of conduct for business transactions. However, the Western secular ethical values are by and large supposed to be utilitarian, relative, situational and devoid of any spiritual sanctioning power. The Islamic ethical codes, on the contrary, are humane rather than utilitarian or relative. They are good for all times and absolute. Ethical and moral codes in Islam are part of the overall Islamic faith and observing them will not only lead to a happy state of affairs in this world but also holds the promise of manifold returns in the Hereafter. Islamic ethical and moral codes thus create a sense of responsibility and accountability in the minds of the believers, be they buyers or sellers. In modern times business ethics has become a major topic of discussion among business communities and other related organizations. Each and every society has evolved ethical and moral codes of conduct for business transactions. However, the Western secular ethical values are by and large supposed to be utilitarian, relative, situational and devoid of any spiritual sanctioning power. The Islamic ethical codes, on the contrary, are humane rather than utilitarian or relative. They are good for all times and absolute. Ethical and moral codes in Islam are part of the overall Islamic faith and observing them will not only lead to a happy state of affairs in this world but also holds the promise of manifold returns in the hereafter. Islamic ethical and moral codes thus create a sense of responsibility and accountability in the minds of the believers, be they buyers or sellers. In modern times business ethics has become a major topic of discussion among business communities and other related organizations. Each and every society has evolved ethical and moral codes of conduct for business transactions. However, the Western secular ethical values are by and large supposed to be utilitarian, relative, situational and devoid of any spiritual sanctioning power. The Islamic ethical codes, on the contrary, are humane rather than utilitarian or relative. They are good for all times and absolute. Ethical and moral codes in Islam are part of the overall Islamic faith and observing them will not only lead to a happy state of affairs in this world but also holds the promise of manifold returns in the Hereafter. Islamic ethical and moral codes thus create a sense of responsibility and accountability in the minds of the believers, be they buyers or sellers. The fundamental codes of moral behaviour such as truthfulness, trustworthiness, generosity and leniency, adherence to business commitments and contracts, fair treatment of workers, avoidance of evil practices (such as fraud, cheating, deceit, hoarding of foodstuff, exploitations, giving short measures etc.) provide, to a large extent, the general background of Islamic business ethics. In view of the observations discussed above it seems that there is a pressing need to study and implement Islamic moral values in the context of the present day business scenario.</p>
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		<title>Marriage in the light of Islam</title>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marriage is a sacred undertaking. It is from the time of Prophet Adam (A.S) that marriage has been an important act in one’s life and is one of the main decisions. In Islam men and women are encouraged to enter into marriage in order to build a righteous family. Marriage, as a social institution, is essentially a civil contract. And as a civil contract it rests on the same footing as other contracts. Its validity depends on the capacity of the contracting parties, which according to Islamic law, consist in having maturity (bulugh) and discretion. Mutual consent and public declaration of the marriage contract are its essentials. The law does not insist on any particular form in which this contract is entered into or on any specific religious ceremony, although there are different traditional forms prevalent amongst the Muslims in different parts of the world. In principle it has been stressed that marriage should take place publicly. Other members of the society should know of this development. Normally, the Nikah (contract of marriage) takes place at a social gathering where members of both the families and other friends and relatives gather. In the Nikah-sermon the persons known as Qazi in the light of Holy  Quran and Sunnah invite the spouses to a life of God-consciousness, purity, mutual love and loyalty and social responsibility. As far as the Shariah is concerned, the validity of the marriage depends on proposition on one side (ijab) and acceptance (qubul) on the other. This offer and the acceptance can take place directly between the parties, or through an agent (Wakil). In a traditional Muslim marriage, the bride’s consent is procured through her representative. Normally there are atleast two witnesses to this matrimonial contract, entered into at a family ceremony. There is also a dower (mahr) which the husband pays to the wife and which is far her sole and exclusive use and benefit. After the consummation of marriage, the bridegroom holds a feast for the relatives and friends. The real purpose of these gatherings and feast is to make the events a social function and to let the society know of it and participate in it. The Holy Prophet (S.A.W) has recommended the people to hold this celebration with simplicity and to share each other’s joy. He (S.A.W) said, the best wedding is that upon which the least trouble and expense is bestowed.  Islam is the only perfect way of life. It has not left any aspect of a man’s day-to-day life untouched and unguided. Holy Prophet Mohammad (S.A.W) said, Marriage is a part of my Sunnah. Whoever runs away from my path is not from amongst us (Ibn Majah). He (S.A.W) emphasizes the need to choose a righteous or religious partner in life in entering into family or marriage life. The Holy Prophet (S.A.W) says, A women is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious women, otherwise you will be a loser (Bukhari 7/27). With righteous parents, children in the family learn the values of love and compassion, of sacrifice for others, of tolerance, mercy and kindness, and other virtuous or righteous deeds. It is the family that provides the most congenial and fulfillment of the development of human personality based on love and mercy. According to Holy Quran (30:21), And Amongst His signs is this, that He created for your mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearths). Verily in that are signs for those who reflect. Holy Prophet (S.A.W) said, when some one with whose religion and character you are satisfied ask your daughter in marriage, accede to his request. If you do not do so, there will be temptation on Earth and extensive corruption (Tirmidhi, 3090). The sign of a righteous women is that she obeys her husband in all matters that Islam has permitted to the best of her ability. Islam permits boy and girl to see each other also inquire about the character of each other who intend to marry. What, however, stands out prominently is that marriage in Muslim society is not merely a private arrangement between the husband and wife. For Muslims, Allah’s commandments are for the benefit of humanity. The Creator does not place any unrealistic burdens upon people but provides us with divine rules and guidance that are advantageous and beneficial to us all. Goodness comes from Allah and corruption on earth comes from human beings (Quran, 4:79). It is unfortunate that we have forgotten the right way of being married. The family is a part of the Islamic social order.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong><em>Prophet Mohammad (S.A.W) says, There is nothing more pleasing to Allah than the house where a marriage takes place, and nothing is more displeasing to him than the house where it is severed by divorce.</em></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>The structure of Muslim family is threefold. The first and the closest consist of the husband, the wife, their children, their parents who live with them, and servants, if any. The next group, the central fold of the family, consist of a number of close relatives, whether they live together or not, who have special claims upon each other, who move freely inside the family with whom marriage is forbidden (regarded as mahram) and between whom there is no hijab (purdah). This constitutes the real core of the Muslim family, sharing each other joys, sorrow, hopes and fears. Relations based on consanguinity, include (i) father, mother, grandfather, grandmother and other direct forbears; (ii) direct descendants, that is son, daughters, grandsons, granddaughters, etc. (iii) relations of the second degree (such as brothers, sisters and their descendants), (iv) father’s or mother’s sister. Those based on affinity include (i) mother-in-law, father-in-law, grandmother-in-law, grandfather-in-law; (ii) wife’s daughters, husband’s sons or their grand-or great-granddaughters or sons respectively; (iii) son’s wife, son’s son’s wife, daughter’s husband, and (iv) stepmothers and stepfathers. With some exceptions the same relations are forbidden through foster-nursing. All those relations who are outside this fold constitute the outer periphery of the Muslim family. They, too, have their rights and obligations. Regarding marriage, it has been said that first find a girl/boy from your relatives, then from your neighbours, if you can’t find from these two then only go outside (for purpose of marriage). In Islam it’s mandatory that both the girl and the boy should be willing to marry each other.  The objective of marriage, aside from human reproduction is love, mercy, mutual respect, justice, emotional well being and spiritual harmony (Quran, 30:21). Holy Prophet (S.A.W) said, when a man marries he has fulfilled half of the religion, so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half (Tirmidhi, 3096). In another Hadith Holy Prophet Mohammad (S.A.W) said, Among the Muslims the most perfect, as regards his faith, is the one whose character is excellent and the best among you are those who treat their wives well (Tirmidhi, 628,278). A women holds a very high status in the Islamic faith. The status of women in Islam is something unique, something novel, something that has no similarity to any other system. Women is recognized as a full and equal partner of man in the procreation of humankind. Allah the Exalted has enjoined on the believing men to treat their wives with kindness, as the following verse of Holy Quran shows: O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should you treat them with harshness, that you may take away part of the dower you given them, except where they have been guilty of open lawdness, on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If you take a dislike to them it may be that you dislike thing, and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good (Quran, 4:19). Marriage was simple in the days of Prohet Mohammad (S.A.W) and was affordable to all, but at present situation is different. Finding the right spouse has become harder than ever before. We usually use the word gift for something that we give voluntarily to a person we like. Dowry, what is usually defined asa ‘gift’ given along with the bride by a bride’s family to the bridegroom, is used as a tool of coercion and greed in modern societies. Generally, the price of dowry is set higher than the bride’s family can afford. In Islam, in contrast, it is the man who pays the mahr (dower) to the women unless the women chooses not to take it (Quran, 4:4). Culture that demand dowry from the bride’s family are actually practicing the opposite of what Allah has commanded. They have reversed Allah’s words in their practice. It is unfortunate to see people submitting themselves to dictates of parents/culture rather than to the will of Almighty Allah who is our Creator, Cherisher, and Sustainer. Why aren’t people listening to the message of Islam instead of following the customs around them? It is observed that when the women brings less than the negotiated amount, she has to endure constant torture from her in-laws after marriage. In many cases this abuse extends to divorce or murder, with a bride being killed by her dissatisfied in-laws or husband. Dowry besides being one of the major cause of divorce and late marriage has also become a barrier for the poor people to arrange their marriage in a so called good and developed society. In truth, Islam encourages marriage with only one women. When one’s married life is good he remains mentally and spiritually contended.  In Islam there is no clash or competition between husband and wife, both are different genders and both have unique roles. The primarily responsibility of woman is to concentrate on the home and the family, and all that is required to operate and develop these institutions. She, too, has certain social responsibilities, rights and duties, but her primary concern is the family. The responsibility for earning a living rests with the husband, while that of proper education, training and upbringing of the children and the optimal functioning of the home and wider family relationships rests with the wife. This is the functional distribution of roles and activities of wife and husband in Islam. Educated women is considered as an asset in a Muslim family.<br />
In Islam the righteous wife is considered as the sign of paradise for her husband on earth. The Messenger of Allah (S.A.W) gave glad tidings to those righteous women that obey their husbands, he (S.A.W) said, if the women offer prayers five times a day, protect their honour and chastity and remain faithfull to her husband, she may enter paradise by whatever gate she desires (Taghreeb ul Tarheeb).  According to Holy Prophet (S.A.W), There is nothing more pleasing to Allah than the house where a marriage takes place, and nothing is more displeasing to Him than the house where it is severed by divorce. Man has been made head of the family so that order and discipline are maintained. Both are enjoined to discharge their respective functions with justice and equity. The Holy Prophet (S.A.W) says, the smart man is the one who takes stock off himself and strives to do that which will benefit him after death, and the helpless one is the one who follows his own whims and desires and engages in wishful thinking (assuming that Allah will forgive him regardless of what he does and that he does not need to strive to good deeds) (Reported by Al-Bukhari).  Islam guides us at every step of our life. If we would truly follow the teachings about marriage in Islam, no male or female would face any kind of problem in their marriage.  May Allah give us strength to behave and act just as He likes us to do and be pleased with us, and that should be purpose of our lives.</p>
<p><em>The author a teacher at S K University of Agriculture Sciences &amp; Technology-SKUAST Srinagar writes on Islamic topics exclusively for “Kashmr Horizon”. The views expressed by the author are his personal</em></p>
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